I was speaking last night with my neighbor Geo, when he said: "Somewhere between the party animal I was in my marriage and the zen meditator I've been in my current relationship... is the real Geo."
I could see the axis, drawn in space before our eyes: on one end of the imaginary "number line" was Geo as Beer-Drinking-Good-Timing-Party-Animal... and at the other end was Geo as Peaceful-Meditating-Man. And Geo's quest right now was to feel along this axis and understand where he belongs.
In my opinion, he exists all along that axis, occupying different places at different times, as everyone does.
And the very same thing applies to wildness and precision in your kalimba playing.